Showing posts with label dealing with pain. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dealing with pain. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

A Lighter Wallet


Welcome back, friends! 

Thanks for checking out Graceland Ontario, your one stop location for success tips and other useful stuff. Today, we're going to talk about dealing with things you have no control over.

Up here in Canada the penny ceased being given as change this Monday. And, you know, I understand the official reasons why: it costs too darn much.

But that doesn’t make me feel any happier. Maybe growing up with it and being sentimental about small things make me think it was the wrong decision.

But, this is one of those cases when the problem lies outside of my circle of influence (in my circle of unfluence) − unless I attempt getting into politics and fighting the penny back into Canadian money, there’s nothing I can do.

Painful though it is to write that.

A lot of people focus on things like this that pop up in the news − incidents they don’t approve of, maybe even impact them directly. But they don’t have a way of fighting back or creating any action to change it.

Sure, I could write a petition, I could stand outside Parliament Hill (where our Federal Government’s housed), but I’ve got things I want to do with my life that take priority. Though I think it would be a cool initiative, I have priorities that prevent me from being “The Man Who Saved the Penny”.

But what do others do? They still complain, they still whine. For me? I immediately start ignoring problems I can’t help. I mean, why worry about what you can’t change?

With fights that you can take up the banner and help − things in your own life, goals you want to achieve − go get ‘em!

But, if there’s really nothing you can do (or nothing you can do without losing focus and hurting your vision), why hurt yourself worrying? It certainly won’t improve the situation and it might even take productivity away from stuff you should be achieving.

Talk to you later!

Alex H.

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Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Love Will Teach You Persistence


Helloo0O Ladies and Gentlemen!

Welcome back to Graceland Ontario − your one stop location for success advice and tips to take your life to the next level. This week, we’ll talk more on persistence.

I figured I’d bring up the old Elvis story again, because it’s good − and most people, when they think of Elvis, discount it.

Elvis was persistent, contrary to what people may say. Sure, his manager, Colonel Parker was good (and sometimes pushed him around). Sure he had a lot of fans, but not originally.

Elvis worked a lot of shows under the Blue Moon Boys title back in ’54 with Scotty Moore on guitar and Bill Black on bass. He kept performing even when people told him he should go back to trucking (his previous career), like the talent producer on the Grand Ole’ Oprey (then the largest country music show in the U.S.). But he kept chugging along with his routines just the same.

Because he loved it. Listen to him live, or even after singing a take in the studio. When you love what you do, you’ll keep doing it. Even when people insult you. Even when you’re not certain you can become great yourself, your love of what you do will pull you through.

That’s the key to persistence guys… love it or lose it − a motto to work by.

See you next week!

Alex H.

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